← Sutta collectionITI74So It Was Said 74SuttaCentral (Bhikkhu Sujato translation)Select any verse to keep it — saved passages go to your Dhamma Deck, the same one the app uses.So It Was Said 74The Book of the ThreesChapter ThreeA ChildThis was said by the Buddha, the Perfected One: that is what I heard.“These three kinds of children are found in the world.What three?One who betters their birth, one who equals their birth, one who fails their birth.And how does a child better their birth?It’s when a child’s parentshave not gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, and consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re immoral, of bad character.But their childhas gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They don’t kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, or consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re ethical, of good character.That’s how a child betters their birth.And how does a child equal their birth?It’s when a child’s parentshave gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They don’t kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, or consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re ethical, of good character.And their childhas gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They don’t kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, or consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re ethical, of good character.That’s how a child equals their birth.And how does a child fail their birth?It’s when a child’s parentshave gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They don’t kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, or consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re ethical, of good character.But their childhas not gone for refuge to the Buddha, the teaching, and the Saṅgha.They kill living creatures, steal, commit sexual misconduct, lie, and consume beer, wine, and liquor intoxicants. They’re immoral, of bad character.That’s how a child fails their birth.These are the three kinds of children found in the world.”The Buddha spoke this matter.On this it is said:“The astute wish for a childwho betters or equals their birth;not one who fails their birth,disgracing their family.These are the children in the worldwho become lay devotees;faithful, accomplished in ethics,bountiful, rid of stinginess.Like the moon freed from clouds,they shine in the assemblies.”This too is a matter that was spoken by the Blessed One: that is what I heard.