← Saṃyutta NikāyaSN7.3Connected Discourses 7.3SuttaCentral (Bhikkhu Sujato translation)Select any verse to keep it — saved passages go to your Dhamma Deck, the same one the app uses.Linked Discourses 7.31. The Perfected OnesWith Bhāradvāja the FiendAt one time the Buddha was staying near Rājagaha, in the Bamboo Grove, the squirrels’ feeding ground.The brahmin Bhāradvāja the Fiend heard a rumor to the effect thata brahmin of the Bhāradvāja clan had gone forth from the lay life to homelessness in the presence of the ascetic Gotama. Angry and displeased he went to the Buddha and abused and insulted him with rude, harsh words.But when he said this, the Buddha kept silent.Then Bhāradvāja the Fiend said to the Buddha,“You’re beaten, ascetic, you’re beaten!”“‘Ha! I won!’ thinks the fool,when speaking with harsh words.Patience is the true victoryfor those who understand.When you get angry at an angry personyou just make things worse for yourself.When you don’t get angry at an angry personyou win a battle hard to win.When you know that the other is angry,you act for the good of bothyourself and the otherif you’re mindful and stay calm.People unskilled in Dhammaconsider one who heals bothoneself and the otherto be a fool.”When he had spoken, Bhāradvāja the Fiend said to the Buddha,“Excellent, worthy Gotama! …” …And Venerable Bhāradvāja became one of the perfected.