← Saṃyutta NikāyaSN9.8Connected Discourses 9.8SuttaCentral (Bhikkhu Sujato translation)Select any verse to keep it — saved passages go to your Dhamma Deck, the same one the app uses.Linked Discourses 9.81. In the WoodsThe Mistress of the HouseAt one time one of the monks was staying in the land of the Kosalans in a certain forest grove.Now at that time that monk had become too closely involved in the affairs of a certain family.The deity haunting that forest had sympathy for that monk, wanting what’s best for him. So, wanting to stir him up, they manifested in the appearance of the mistress of that family, approached the monk, and addressed him in verse:“On the banks of the rivers and in the guest houses,in hotels and on highways,people come together and gossip:what’s going on between you and me?”“There are lots of annoying soundsthat an austere ascetic must endure.But they mustn’t be dismayed by that,for that’s not what defiles you.If you’re startled by every little sound,like a wind-deer in the wood,they’ll call you ‘flighty minded’;and your practice won’t succeed.”